Tuesday, 30 May 2017

What should I do with my life? Coffee & A Chat #3

Hey you!
Hope your well?

'What should I do with my life?'
Ever pondered this question?
I am sure we all have at some point in our lives.

I recently turned 25 so have been thinking so much more about this, and have even been losing sleep over it.
For so long I thought I wanted a career in Fashion and dedicated my whole life to it, I did the degree, the internships, the jobs but then I got sick and my whole perspective on life changed including my career choices, I kind of lost my self for a while.

I've always loved so many things, you can probably tell from my blog! Fashion, Art, Singing, Fitness, food, Animals and more but I don't seem to have that one thing that I am extremely good at and passionate about.
But its physically impossible to do them all, you have to study, and most people don't have the time and money to study numerous topics at certified level.

Another difficulty for me is that I also suffer with a chronic illness Endometriosis, and I'm in severe pain the majority of the time, so its finding a career that would be suitable with my illness also, which does make me sad that I have to take this into consideration, because I don't have the luxury of prefect health like the majority of 20 somethings.

I worry about the future and will I ever be able to afford a house?
will I ever be able to have children?
will I be able to retire?

So many questions its just so overwhelming!
I feel like society makes us believe we should have it all figured it out by now, and everywhere you look it feels like everyones doing better than you.

I've come to the conclusion that really all you can do is go with the flow, do things you enjoy, pursue whatever dreams you have, be a good person, help others and try to live your life to the fullest.
We may not all have a future so try to live for today! I know that sounds depressing but its true really.

Hope you enjoyed this little coffee chat

let me know your thoughts?

See you next time!



  1. I really enjoyed this little coffee chat! Thanks xx


  2. Do the things that makes you happy its the most important <3 ! Nice post :)


  3. Awesome post !


  4. coffee looks delicious!!
    Enjoy, Tiff


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